{"id":74274,"date":"2026-09-10T18:00:00","date_gmt":"2026-09-10T16:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/solddolls.com\/?p=74274"},"modified":"2026-08-16T12:26:34","modified_gmt":"2026-08-16T10:26:34","slug":"preliminaries-why-they-really-change-the-quality-of-a-sexual-intercourse","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/solddolls.com\/en-gb\/preliminaires-pourquoi-ils-changent-vraiment-la-qualite-dun-rapport-sexuel\/","title":{"rendered":"Preliminaries: Why they really change the quality of a sexual intercourse"},"content":{"rendered":"<article class=\"solddolls-blog-article\" data-source-id=\"116\">\n<h1>Preliminaries: Why they really change the quality of a sexual intercourse<\/h1>\n<figure class=\"article-hero\"><img src=\"https:\/\/solddolls.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/116-foreplay-the-soul-of-a-real-sex-session-2.avif\" alt=\"Preliminaries: Why they really change the quality of a sexual intercourse\" loading=\"eager\" decoding=\"async\" title=\"Preliminaries: Why they really change the quality of a sexual intercourse\"><\/figure>\n<div class=\"article-content\">\n<p>Foreplay is sometimes treated as a simple step before penetration. However, for many people, they are fully part of sexual intercourse: they allow you to gradually increase excitement, to communicate better and to create a climate of trust.<\/p>\n<p>There is no universal duration or timer to follow. Some people are excited very quickly, others need more time. What matters above all is to follow the reactions of the partner rather than wanting to reach a precise step as soon as possible.<\/p>\n<h2>Why are foreplay important?<\/h2>\n<p>In many women in particular, lubrication and increased genital sensitivity may require progressive stimulation time. But the individual differences are important: it would be misleading to set a valid number of minutes for everyone.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/solddolls.com\/en-gb\/product\/suction-cup-dildo-in-exotic-wolf-dog-style-ideal-for-couples-for-a-hands-free-experience\/\" class=\"sd-goods-one sd-product-btn\"><img class=\"sd-gw-img\" decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/solddolls.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/gode-a-ventouse-en-style-exotique-de-chien-loup-ideal-pour-les-couples-pour-une-01-bdfab4f4.jpg\" alt=\"Suction cup dildo in exotic wolf-dog style, ideal for couples for a hands-free experience\" title=\"Suction cup dildo in exotic wolf-dog style, ideal for couples for a hands-free experience\"><span class=\"sd-gw-name\">Suction cup dildo in exotic wolf-dog style, ideal for couples for a hands-free experience<\/span><span class=\"sd-gw-b\"><span class=\"sd-price\"><em class=\"sd-red\">22,99<\/em><em class=\"sd-euro\">\u20ac<\/em><\/span><\/span><span class=\"sd-g-rbtn\">View product<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<h2>How to make foreplay more enjoyable?<\/h2>\n<figure class=\"article-image\"><img src=\"https:\/\/solddolls.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/01-133.avif\" alt=\"How to make foreplay more enjoyable?\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" title=\"How to make foreplay more enjoyable?\"><\/figure>\n<p>It is not a question of mechanically accumulating gestures. The most useful thing is to vary the sensations while observing what really pleases the other person.<\/p>\n<h3>Working hands and mouth together<\/h3>\n<p>The hands and mouth make it possible to create very different sensations. Caresses on the neck, shoulders, arms, back or thighs can accompany kisses and let the excitement rise without going immediately to the genital areas.<\/p>\n<p>Starting with less intimate areas can also create more anticipation. When the partner approaches, changes their breathing or guides your hand, these signals often give more information than a \u00abrecipe\u00bb learned in advance.<\/p>\n<figure class=\"article-image\"><img src=\"https:\/\/solddolls.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/02-170.avif\" alt=\"Working hands and mouth together\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" title=\"Working hands and mouth together\"><\/figure>\n<p>The lyrics can also participate in the excitement. A sincere compliment, question or phrase can work if they match the relationship and if the other person appreciates this type of exchange.<\/p>\n<h3>Play with softness and gaze<\/h3>\n<p>A pleasant touch is not necessarily very light. Some people prefer a soft caress, others a firmer contact. It is possible to gradually change the pressure and the rhythm rather than staying on the same intensity.<\/p>\n<p>The gaze can strengthen proximity, but it is not an obligation: some partners prefer to close their eyes or limit eye contact.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/solddolls.com\/en-gb\/product\/orion-vibrating-sex-machine-with-swinging-and-automatic-heating-with-remote-control-and-dildo\/\" class=\"sd-goods-one sd-product-btn\"><img class=\"sd-gw-img\" decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/solddolls.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/orion-machine-sexuelle-vibrante-a-balancement-et-chauffage-automatique-avec-tele-01-12e259b7.gif\" alt=\"Orion \u2013 Vibrating, rocking sex machine with automatic heating, remote control and dildo\" title=\"Orion \u2013 Vibrating, rocking sex machine with automatic heating, remote control and dildo\"><span class=\"sd-gw-name\">Orion \u2013 Vibrating sex machine with swing and automatic heating with remote control and dildo<\/span><span class=\"sd-gw-b\"><span class=\"sd-price\"><em class=\"sd-red\">106,78<\/em><em class=\"sd-euro\">\u20ac<\/em><\/span><\/span><span class=\"sd-g-rbtn\">View product<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<figure class=\"article-image\"><img src=\"https:\/\/solddolls.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/02-170.avif\" alt=\"Play with softness and gaze\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" title=\"Play with softness and gaze\"><\/figure>\n<h3>Introduce little surprises<\/h3>\n<p>Changing the pace slightly can prevent foreplay becoming predictable. There is no need to invent a complicated scenario.<\/p>\n<p>Some possibilities:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>suddenly slow down during a kiss; ;<\/li>\n<li>kiss the neck, shoulder or back; ;<\/li>\n<li>pass the fingers through the hair if this gesture is appreciated; ;<\/li>\n<li>Alternate manual caresses and kisses; ;<\/li>\n<li>use a vibrator or other suitable sex toy; ;<\/li>\n<li>Explore a role-playing game or fantasy you've talked about before.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>Know the preferences and respect the limits<\/h2>\n<figure class=\"article-image\"><img src=\"https:\/\/solddolls.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/04-160.avif\" alt=\"Know the preferences and respect the limits\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" title=\"Know the preferences and respect the limits\"><\/figure>\n<p>The most important point of foreplay is respect. It is not a demonstration performed by a single person, but an interaction.<\/p>\n<p>Ask \u00abDo you prefer like this or more gently?\u00bb \u00ab, listen to a change of breath, see if the partner approaches or moves away and accept a \u00bbno\u201d allow to adapt the gestures in real time.<\/p>\n<p>It should also be avoided assuming that all women or men like the same things. A technique appreciated by a former partner can leave the next indifferent. Preferences can even change from day to day.<\/p>\n<h2>Preliminaries are not just a preparation<\/h2>\n<figure class=\"article-image\"><img src=\"https:\/\/solddolls.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/05-145.avif\" alt=\"Preliminaries are not just a preparation\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" title=\"Preliminaries are not just a preparation\"><\/figure>\n<p>Kissing, caressing, mutual masturbation, oral sex or using a sex toy can be a complete sexual experience. Penetration does not need to be considered the only \u00abtrue\u00bb part of the report.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/solddolls.com\/en-gb\/product\/eagle-cock-realistic-dildo-18-cm-long-and-4-cm-in-diameter-with-movements-of-back-and-forth-and-vibrations\/\" class=\"sd-goods-one sd-product-btn\"><img class=\"sd-gw-img\" decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/solddolls.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/eagle-cock-gode-realiste-de-18-cm-de-long-et-4-cm-de-diametre-avec-mouvements-de-01-1d4d5092.jpg\" alt=\"Eagle Cock Realistic Dildo 18cm long and 4cm in diameter, with back-and-forth movements and vibrations\" title=\"Eagle Cock Realistic Dildo 18cm long and 4cm in diameter, with back-and-forth movements and vibrations\"><span class=\"sd-gw-name\">Eagle Cock Realistic Dildo 18cm long and 4cm in diameter, with back-and-forth movements and vibrations<\/span><span class=\"sd-gw-b\"><span class=\"sd-price\"><em class=\"sd-red\">44,99<\/em><em class=\"sd-euro\">\u20ac<\/em><\/span><\/span><span class=\"sd-g-rbtn\">View product<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<h2>to remember<\/h2>\n<p>Good foreplay does not depend on a list of gestures or a minimum time. They are mainly based on progression, attention and communication.<\/p>\n<p>Taking the time to observe the body and the emotions of the other allows you to build a more comfortable and often more intense excitement. Instead of running to an \u00abfinish line\u00bb, it is better to consider the whole process as part of the pleasure.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/article>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Pr\u00e9liminaires : pourquoi ils changent vraiment la qualit\u00e9 d\u2019un rapport sexuel Les pr\u00e9liminaires sont parfois trait\u00e9s comme une simple \u00e9tape avant la p\u00e9n\u00e9tration. Pourtant, pour beaucoup de personnes, ils font pleinement partie du rapport sexuel : ils permettent de faire monter progressivement l\u2019excitation, de mieux communiquer et de cr\u00e9er un climat de confiance. 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