{"id":74320,"date":"2026-09-11T21:00:00","date_gmt":"2026-09-11T19:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/solddolls.com\/?p=74320"},"modified":"2026-08-16T12:26:47","modified_gmt":"2026-08-16T10:26:47","slug":"pornography-7-ideas-received-on-sex-that-it-is-better-to-forget","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/solddolls.com\/en-gb\/pornographie-7-idees-recues-sur-le-sexe-quil-vaut-mieux-oublier\/","title":{"rendered":"Pornography: 7 received ideas about sex that it is better to forget"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Pornography: 7 received ideas about sex that it is better to forget<\/h1>\n
\"Pornography:<\/figure>\n
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Pornographic films can be part of the sexuality of some adults, but they remain staged productions. The actors are selected, the scenes are prepared, edited and filmed to be visually effective, not to represent the average of sexual intercourse.<\/p>\n

The problem appears when using these images as a reference to judge their body, the duration of a report or the reactions of a partner. Here are several common received ideas.<\/p>\n

1. The bigger the penis, the better the ratio will be\u00ab<\/h2>\n

Pornography often highlights atypical bodies because they are visually significant. This can make it look like a large penis is essential to satisfy a partner.<\/p>\n

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In reality, sexual satisfaction depends much more on communication, level of excitement, rhythm, comfort and types of stimulation used. There is no universal minimum length that would guarantee the pleasure.<\/p>\n

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A very wide or very long penis may even require more lubrication and progression to avoid discomfort. Size is therefore not a performance ranking.<\/p>\n

2. \u00ab The longer the penetration, the better sex \u00bb<\/h2>\n

Pornographic scenes can make it look like a penetration should last for tens of minutes without interruption. However, a shoot includes pauses, angle changes, cuts and sometimes helpers that are not visible on the screen.<\/p>\n

In real life, the duration varies considerably. A short report can be very satisfying and a long report can become tiring or uncomfortable.<\/p>\n

The best indicator is therefore not the timer, but the satisfaction of the partners. If both people take pleasure and can adjust the pace, there is no reason to reproduce a duration seen on the screen.<\/p>\n

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3. \u00ab No squirting = no orgasm \u00bb<\/h2>\n

The squirting is often very visible in the image, which explains its presence in certain scenes. But it is neither necessary nor systematic during the female orgasm.<\/p>\n

A woman can have an orgasm without emitting liquid and can also emit liquid without feeling what others would describe as an intense orgasm.<\/p>\n

The sensations vary: some women prefer external clitoral stimulation, others appreciate a combination of stimulations. The body reaction should not be transformed into a performance test.<\/p>\n

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Trying to \u00absquirt\u00bb someone at all costs can on the contrary create unnecessary pressure. It is better to ask what is pleasant and let the body's response occur naturally.<\/p>\n

4. \u00ab Masturbation inevitably causes premature ejaculation.\u00bb<\/h2>\n

Masturbation does not automatically lead to premature ejaculation. On the contrary, it can help a man to better know his level of excitement and the sensations that precede ejaculation.<\/p>\n

Habit matters though. A systematically very fast masturbation, with strong pressure and always the same technique, can create habits that are difficult to reproduce with a partner. This does not mean that the body is \u00abdamaged\u00bb: it can simply be useful to vary the rhythm and the pressure.<\/p>\n

A masturbator can be used to explore these variations without looking for the immediate orgasm. The objective is to discover your body, not to transform each session into a mandatory training.<\/p>\n

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5. \u00ab Dark vulvar lips prove a significant sex life\u00bb<\/h2>\n

The color of the vulva absolutely does not allow you to know the sexual history of a person.<\/p>\n

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Small and large lips can be light, pink, brown, purplish or present several shades. This color depends in particular on genetics, natural pigmentation, hormones, age and friction.<\/p>\n

Darker coloring at puberty, during pregnancy or simply over time can be perfectly normal. It says nothing about the number of partners or reports.<\/p>\n

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6. \u00ab A vulva must be completely shaved to be clean\u00bb<\/h2>\n

In many films, pubic hair is reduced or absent for aesthetic and visual reasons. This does not mean that a natural body is less clean.<\/p>\n

Pubic hair has a protective function and their presence is normal. Keeping them shortened, shaving or waxing them is a personal choice.<\/p>\n

If you remove hair, irritations, small pimples and ingrown hairs are possible. It is therefore necessary to choose a method adapted to your skin, use clean equipment and avoid waxing only to correspond to a standard imposed by pornographic images.<\/p>\n

7. \u00ab The size or color of the areolas indicates the sexual experience \u00bb<\/h2>\n
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The size of nipples and areolas naturally varies from person to person. Pigmentation can also change with puberty, hormones, pregnancy, breastfeeding or age.<\/p>\n

None of these characteristics can determine the amount of sexual intercourse a woman has had.<\/p>\n

Comparing your body to that of actresses selected for a shoot easily creates unnecessary complexes. The breasts, areolas and the vulva have a great normal diversity.<\/p>\n

Pornography is not a sex education manual<\/h2>\n
\"Pornography<\/figure>\n

Pornography can show practices that actually exist, but it does not necessarily show preparation, negotiated consent, breaks, lubricant, protections or discussions that take place off camera.<\/p>\n

Nor does it show all the diversity of bodies and reactions. A silent person can take a lot of fun; A person who moans strongly does not necessarily have an orgasm; An erection may fluctuate; A penetration may require a break.<\/p>\n

This shift becomes problematic when someone thinks they should have exactly the same body, the same reactions or the same performances as the actors.<\/p>\n

How to keep a more realistic view of sex?<\/h2>\n

A few marks are more useful than the performances shown on the screen:<\/p>\n

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\"How<\/figure>\n
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  • talk about desires and limits; ;<\/li>\n
  • Use enough lubricant when necessary; ;<\/li>\n
  • Do not reduce the relationship to penetration; ;<\/li>\n
  • Accepting variations in erection, excitement and orgasm; ;<\/li>\n
  • Prioritize comfort over performance; ;<\/li>\n
  • Choose reliable sources for sexual health issues.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

    to remember<\/h2>\n

    Adult movies are designed to be watched, not to define what a \u00abnormal\u00bb report should be. Penis size, duration, squirting, vulva color, hairiness or breast appearance do not allow a person to measure the sexual value or experience.<\/p>\n

    Understanding this difference helps to reduce complexes and to return to what really matters: consent, pleasure, comfort and communication between partners.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/article>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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