Squirting refers to the expulsion of fluid through the urethra during strong sexual arousal. It is often associated with stimulation of the anterior wall of the vagina, sometimes called G-zone, but not all women experience it and it does not constitute a measure of the quality of an orgasm.
It is also important to qualify a common idea: the expelled liquid does not come only from the Skene glands. Studies show that its composition may vary and contain a proportion of fluid from the bladder, mixed with para-urethral secretions. It is therefore useless to strictly oppose «squirting» and urinates as if it were two totally separate phenomena.
Create a relaxed environment
Relaxation is more important than the search for a perfect technique. Plan a moment without interruption, a comfortable position and possibly a towel or waterproof protection so you don't worry about the sheets.
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Explore the anterior wall of the vagina
The area often called G-spot is on the anterior wall, on the side of the navel. His position and sensitivity vary greatly from person to person; Therefore, you should not look for a specific «button» at a mandatory distance.
Start with a global excitement: caresses, clitoris, lips, breasts or any other pleasant area. Strong excitement often makes vaginal tissues more sensitive and easier to explore.
Use enough lubricant
Apply lubricant to fingers or sex toy. A water-based product is compatible with the majority of toys and condoms.
Natural lubrication can be important during excitement, but adding product reduces friction and allows for a movement to be repeated without irritation.
Stimulation with fingers
Insert a finger or two, palm facing up, then gently explore the anterior wall with a «come here» movement. Change the pressure and pace based on the reactions rather than consistently applying strong pressure.
Some people describe a feeling close to a desire to urinate when the area is stimulated. If this is uncomfortable, slow down. It is never necessary to «push through» an unpleasant feeling to reach squirting.
Stimulation with a sex toy
A slightly curved vibrator allows regular pressure on the anterior wall. Dual-stimulation models add an external branch for the clitoris.
Start on a low level and test different angles. A very strong vibration is not essential and can sometimes mask finer sensations.
Combine internal stimulation and clitoral
For many women, clitoral stimulation remains the main element of pleasure. Combining it with internal pressure can increase excitement and sometimes accompany female ejaculation, but this result is not guaranteed.
You can use one hand for internal stimulation and the other for the clitoris, or choose a rabbit or two separate small toys.
Useful positions
In the cowgirl position, the person above controls the angle and depth. In penetration from behind, the anterior wall may receive a different pressure depending on the inclination of the pelvis.
For exploration with your fingers or a toy, lying on your back, knees bent, is often the easiest because the area remains easily accessible.
Do not make squirting a mandatory objective
Some women squirt easily, others rarely and others never. This does not mean that their orgasm is less intense.
Absolutely looking for a result can create tension and divert attention from real pleasure. The best indicator is what is nice for the person, not the amount of fluid produced.
Frequently asked questions
Is squirting exactly the same as urinating?
No, but the fluid may contain a variable amount of diluted urine as well as para-urethral secretions. The phenomenon is more complex than an absolute distinction between the two.
Can all women squirt?
All women have a similar anatomy, but not all of them experience visible liquid expulsion and no practice guarantees this result.
Do you need a special sex toy?
No. Fingers may be enough. A curved toy can simply facilitate regular pressure on the anterior wall.
Does squirting mean better orgasm?
No. It can accompany an orgasm or occur separately. The amount of liquid does not measure the intensity of the pleasure.
Exploration must therefore remain relaxed, lubricated and guided by sensations. If squirting happens, consider it one of many possibilities, not as a successful exam.
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