Anal sex toys can look daunting when they have never been used. The questions are often the same: is it painful, what size to choose, should you prepare and how to avoid hygiene problems?
The main rule is simple: the anal is slowly uncovered, with a lot of lubricant and only with a toy designed for this area.
What are the main anal sex toys?
Anal plug
The plug generally has a progressive tip, a wider central part and then a thinner neck. A flared base remains outside and prevents the toy from being sucked into the rectum.
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It provides a feeling of pressure and filling.
Anal Beads
The beads are connected together and can be inserted and then removed gradually. They must also have a reliable handle or external base.
Prostate massager
The prostate massager is generally curved towards the front wall of the rectum. It can be manual or vibrant and should always have a safe base.
Decorative or tail plug
These models add a visual or role-playing dimension. The decoration does not change the safety rules: suitable size, flared base and lubrication remain essential.
Vibrating plug
The vibration adds internal stimulation. To start, choose a model whose intensity can be adjusted so as not to start too hard.
How can you feel the first time?
A feeling of pressure or a false desire to go to the toilet may appear. The body is not used to this stimulation and the sphincter can contract by reflex.
On the other hand, a sharp pain is not a reaction that one must simply «suffer». Stop, add lubricant, reduce the size or postpone the test.
Four tips make it easier to discover:
- start small; ;
- use a lot of lubricant; ;
- breathe and let the muscle relax; ;
- Progress gradually rather than insert the toy in one movement.
If you don't like the practice, there is no reason to continue.
Which model to choose to start?
Small manual plug
It is usually the simplest choice. There is no engine or setting to manage and the person can focus only on the feeling of pressure.
Kits of several sizes can be useful provided you start with the smallest and only increase when the previous size is actually comfortable.
Vibrating plug
Once the insertion has been mastered, the vibration allows you to vary the sensations. A remote control can be interesting for the couple game.
Do not wear a toy in public if its base, comfort or your ability to quickly remove it is not perfectly mastered.
Prostate massager
For men wishing to explore this area, a curved shape and a reasonable diameter are preferable to the start. Vibration is not mandatory to feel the prostate pressure.
Clean before and after
The rectum naturally contains a lot of bacteria. The toy must therefore be washed before and after use with a method compatible with its material.
Warm water and a mild cleaner are suitable for many products. Rinse thoroughly and dry thoroughly before storing.
A condom on the sex toy can facilitate hygiene, especially when it is shared. Change it between users and between areas of the body.
Lubrication is essential
The anus does not lubricate naturally. Insertion without lubricant increases the risk of pain and small lesions.
A water-based lubricant is a versatile choice for many toys. Apply generously to the area and sex toy, then add some during the session if necessary.
Saliva dries quickly and is not sufficient lubrication for prolonged insertion.
Start small and progress according to comfort
A large size is not a sign of experience. The right diameter is the one that the muscles can accommodate without pain.
Once a small comfortable plug, you can decide if you really want a fuller feel. Nothing forces you to increase the size.
How long can you keep a plug?
There is no universal limit of thirty minutes valid for all products and people. To begin, however, favor short sessions to observe how your body reacts.
Remove the plug if you experience pain, numbness, excessive pressure, irritation or increasing discomfort.
Models for extended wear should have a comfortable base that does not compress fabrics.
When should you stop?
Stop immediately in case of severe pain, severe bleeding, marked swelling or discomfort.
A small trace of blood can sometimes come from irritation, but significant, repeated or accompanied by severe pain should be assessed by a health professional.
Never continue to «get used» to pain.
conclusion
Anal sex toys are neither mysterious nor obligatory. They are simply an additional way to explore sensations.
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To start properly, choose a small toy with flared base, use a lot of lubricant, move slowly and stop at the slightest pain.
Anal pleasure is less based on size or intensity than on relaxation, safety and respect for the rhythm of the body.
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