Why does the cowgirl position appeal to some women so much?

The cowgirl position, in which the woman sits above her partner, is popular because she gives a lot of control over the rhythm, angle and depth of penetration. For many women, this freedom also makes it easier to adjust the external stimulation of the clitoris.

Obviously not everyone feels the same things. The position is not «better» by nature: its interest comes above all from the possibility of modifying each movement according to what is pleasant.

More control over clitoral stimulation

The clitoris is a very richly innervated structure and plays a major role in the female orgasm. In the cowgirl position, the person above can choose to move vertically, slide the pelvis forward and backward or maintain a more constant pressure against the lower abdomen of their partner.

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This ability to directly adjust contact may be more effective than a rhythm imposed by the other person.

Some women therefore prefer less large penetration movements and more pelvic friction.

The rhythm remains in his hands

In many positions, the penetrated person must adapt to the rhythm of his partner.

This mastery can help to relax. Instead of anticipating a movement that is too fast or too deep, the person directly controls what is happening.

It can also make communication easier: if a feeling works particularly well, just maintain the same movement rather than trying to explain it during the action.

A feeling of psychological control

Pleasure does not depend only on physical contact. Some women also like the feeling of leading the report, choosing the rhythm and observing their partner's reactions.

For some people, this role change increases excitement or confidence.

The partner can stay active

Being below doesn't mean staying totally passive.

The partner can caress the thighs, belly, breasts or clitoris, gently accompany the movement of the pelvis or simply maintain visual and physical contact.

Hands on the hips can help stabilize the position, but they should not impose a movement that the person above has not chosen.

A simple version to start

To begin, the kneeling position is generally the most stable. The woman places her knees on each side of her partner's pelvis, then leans if necessary on her chest or on the bed.

Instead of immediately trying to get up and down quickly, start with small movements from the front to back pelvis.

It is also possible to lean forward slightly in order to modify the angle and increase the contact between the two bodies.

The hands can remain free, land on the partner or intertwine with his to bring more stability and connection.

Play with angle rather than speed

A common mistake is to think that a position becomes more stimulating only when it is faster.

Try for example:

• a slow forward-to-back movement; ;
• small circles with the basin; ;
• a movement in the shape of eight; ;
• a slight forward tilt; ;
• A straighter posture to change the depth.

The good movement is the one that remains comfortable and pleasant, not the one that seems the most spectacular.

The vertical movement

The climb and descent require more of the thighs and the trunk.

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Start slowly, especially if the penetration is deep. A sudden movement can be uncomfortable for the person above as for the partner.

If the legs get tired, simply return to a shorter position on your knees or pelvic movements.

Circles and movements in eight

Turning the pelvis or drawing a movement in eight allows you to gradually change the contact areas without having to multiply the large movements.

This variant is particularly interesting for people who are looking for more external friction and continuous rhythm.

It can also be associated with manual clitoris stimulation if it increases the pleasure.

Squatting Cowgirl: a more demanding variant

In the squatting version, the feet are more supported on the bed and the legs support a large part of the body weight.

It is not necessary to take advantage of the position. If it creates tension in the knees, ankles or back, return to a more stable variant.

Reverse Cowgirl

The reverse cowgirl is practiced by turning your back on the partner.

Some people like this feeling, others find it less comfortable.

Avoid sudden changes in direction in particular when the penis is deeply inserted.

What if you want the feeling without so much physical exertion?

Some sexual machines reproduce part of the principle of the cowgirl position while reducing the effort required on the legs and the trunk.

For example, the VVD Riding Sex Machine, available among the models offered on Solddolls, uses a saddle shape intended to allow a stable sitting position. Depending on the product configuration, different tips can be installed to change the stimulation type.

The model featured in the original article comes with multiple interchangeable heads, including rolling, telescopic and oriented movement options towards targeted internal stimulation.

This type of machine can be interesting for a person who likes the cowgirl's pelvis movements but wants to avoid supporting his weight throughout the session.

How to make the position more pleasant?

A few simple settings often make more difference than a complicated technique:

• take the time for foreplay; ;
• Use lubricant if necessary; ;
• Start with a shallow depth; ;
• communicate when an angle is particularly pleasant; ;
• change position as soon as the legs or back tire; ;
• Add clitoral stimulation if penetration alone is not enough.

The female orgasm does not depend on a single position. Many women need direct or indirect clitoral stimulation in addition to penetration.

conclusion

The cowgirl position is particularly popular because it allows the woman to control the rhythm, angle, depth and level of clitoral friction. It can also provide a sense of control and leave a lot of room for interaction with the partner.

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There is no need to master acrobatic variants. A stable position, small movements of the pelvis and good communication are often enough to make the experience more pleasant.

And for those who wish to regain a feeling of overlap without providing so much physical effort, a machine of the Riding Sex Machine can be an alternative to explore.