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With an increasingly wide offer, choosing a sex toy can quickly become complicated. Vibrator and vibrator, forced air stimulator, wand, small precise model or device simulating licking: each product creates a different feeling.
The best choice depends mainly on your sensitivity and the type of stimulation you like. This guide presents the main categories of sex toys for women external to help you select a suitable model without buying unnecessary functions.
Step 1: Get to know your body better
If you are completely new to the area, start by spotting the areas that react best to touch. Some people like direct stimulation of the clitoris, others prefer pressure around it or more diffuse caresses.
You can explore with your fingers before buying a sex toy. This helps to know if you prefer light pressure, circular movements, vibrations or more targeted stimulation.
It is not necessary to have had sex or an orgasm before using a sex toy. The goal is simply to understand what makes you feel comfortable.
The main categories of external sex toys
We find in particular:
- vibrating eggs; ;
- them Powerful wands or massagers ;
- forced air clitoral stimulators; ;
- small precise vibrators; ;
- sex toys simulating a language movement; ;
- Ball models or moving beads.
Some devices are exclusively external, others can also be used in penetration or combine the two types of stimulation.
Vibrating egg: simple and versatile
the’vibrating egg is a classic. Its small size allows it to be used on the clitoris, lips, nipples or other sensitive areas.
His strengths
- compact format; ;
- Simple handling; ;
- several intensities on many models; ;
- relatively diffuse stimulation; ;
- Good choice to discover the vibrations.
It is not mandatory to insert it. Many users only use it outdoors.
For a person who already knows strong vibrations very well, a small egg may seem soft. But that doesn't mean it's just for beginners.
Wand: wide and powerful vibration
The Wand has a wide head and a generally more powerful engine than a small vibrator. It stimulates an extended area rather than a very specific point.
It fits well if you like
- deep vibrations; ;
- wider pressure; ;
- A device that can be used alone or in pairs; ;
- High but adjustable intensities.
Modern models exist with or wirelessly. Their main drawback is the size.
A Wand is not automatically not recommended for beginners: just choose a model with a really soft low level and not start directly as much as possible.
Pulsed air clitoral stimulator
These devices don't actually «suck» the clitoris. They use air pressure variations around a small opening to create pulsations without direct conventional vibration.
This stimulation can be very intense for some people and softer for others depending on the model.
its advantages
- targeted stimulation; ;
- sometimes less direct contact with the glans of the clitoris; ;
- adjustable intensity; ;
- often compact format.
There is no guarantee of quick orgasm. Some people love this feeling, others prefer a traditional vibration.
If you are very sensitive, start at the lowest level or place the tip slightly next to the clitoris.
Pen vibrator: very precise
A small fine vibrator allows the vibration to be concentrated on a reduced area. This precision appeals to some users who wish to target the clitoris directly.
to remember
- stimulation more localized than a wand; ;
- easy to move device; ;
- potentially high intensity on a small area; ;
- May be too direct for a very sensitive person.
High power is not synonymous with better pleasure. If the area becomes numb, lower the intensity or pause.
Sex toys simulating licking
These devices use a tongue or flexible element that rotates, oscillates or moves to reproduce a tongue movement.
The sensation is often more rhythmic and less uniform than a classical vibration. It is suitable for people who like progressive and repeated stimulation.
Some models add a forced air function, but more functions do not necessarily mean better ergonomics. Look especially at the shape of the head and the ease of cleaning.
A little water-based lubricant can make contact more comfortable.
Ball models or mobile beads
Some sex toys contain small marbles that roll under a membrane or move around an area. Their feeling is generally more subtle than that of a powerful engine.
They can be interesting for those who like a soft and varied stimulation. The versions combining vibration and balls offer a more marked feeling.
Before purchase, check the ease of cleaning joints and moving parts.
How to choose according to your level of sensitivity?
If you like stimulation soft and wide, look at the vibrating eggs or some ball fixtures.
If you like stimulation Powerful and diffuse, a wand may be more suitable.
If you prefer something highly targeted, a small precise vibrator or a forced air stimulator can be interesting.
If you like a feeling Rhythm close to a language movement, Look at oscillating or rotating models.
The most important thing is to choose a device whose intensity can be adjusted gradually.
Use and maintenance
Clean the sex toy before first use and after each session. Use lukewarm water and a cleaner compatible with the material and the seal of the product.
Add lubricant if necessary to reduce friction. For simplicity, a water-based lubricant is compatible with many materials, but always check the instructions.
Allow the product to dry completely before storing it in a clean, dry place away from heat.
conclusion
There is no «best» external sex toy for all women. A vibrating egg, a Wand, a forced air stimulator or a licking device meet different sensitivities.
Start by identifying the type of stimulation you already like, choose adjustable intensities and avoid confusing maximum power and efficiency. A well-suited sex toy should above all be easy to use, comfortable and simple to clean so that you really want to use it.
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