Beginner guide to anal sex toys: plugs, beads, dildos and prostate

If you are curious about anal pleasure but not sure where to start, the most useful rule is simple: small diameter, a lot of lubricant and slow progression. The anal sex toys are very varied, but they do not all offer the same sensations or the same level of control.

start slowly

Before using a toy, take the time to relax. External stimulation around the anus, a lubricated finger or a very small plug allow you to discover the area without immediately looking for deep penetration.

The sphincter muscles gradually relax with excitement. Never push a sex toy against significant resistance. If severe pain appears, stop, add lubricant or choose a smaller size.

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The anal plug

The plug is often the best first anal sex toy. Its tip is progressive, its body widens and then tightens at the level of the cervix. A flared base stays on the outside of the body and prevents the toy from slipping entirely into the rectum.

Once inserted, the plug can stay in place during a masturbation or a report and create a filling sensation. In humans, a curved form can exert pressure on the prostate; In women, the plug can create additional pressure behind the vaginal wall.

To start, choose a small soft silicone model. The progressive kits then allow to increase the diameter only when the previous size is really comfortable.

Anal beads

The beads are connected together and their diameter often increases gradually. They give a different feel to the plug because each ball passes separately through the sphincter.

They can be inserted slowly and then removed gradually. It is not necessary to remove them precisely at the time of orgasm; Do it only at the pace that remains comfortable.

Choose a chain designed for anal, solid, with a handle or a secure base. Avoid improvised collars or objects whose bindings can break.

The Anal Dildo

Unlike the plug, the dildo is intended to create more movement. It can be straight, curved or equipped with a suction cup.

For the anal, a flared base is essential. All vaginal dildos are therefore not suitable. A slightly curved model may be interesting for prostate stimulation, but a moderate diameter remains preferable when starting.

Use a lot of lubricant and start with small movements before increasing the amplitude.

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The prostate massager

The prostate massager is designed specifically for men. Its curve directs the pressure to the anterior wall of the rectum, behind which is the prostate.

Manual models allow precise control of the angle, while vibrant versions add multiple intensities or a remote control.

A prostate orgasm is possible in some men but is not guaranteed. The feeling of deep pressure can already be pleasant without looking for a particular performance.

Strap-on and pegging

The strap-on associates a dildo with a harness. It can be used by different couples for vaginal or anal penetration.

For a first pegging, choose a small anal dildo rather than a very wide model. The penetrated person must be able to control the rhythm and the depth, and the partner who wears the harness must move forward slowly since his own sensations do not always indicate the pressure exerted.

Should I do an enema?

No, it's not mandatory. A normal shower and external hygiene are often enough.

If you prefer a rectal rinse, use a small pear with lukewarm water. Do not add soap inside and avoid repeating enemas until «perfectly clear» water, as this may irritate the mucous membrane.

Rinse early enough to let the body drain the remaining water before the session.

Lubrication and safety

The anus does not produce natural lubrication. So use a generous amount of compatible product and put it back as soon as the slide decreases.

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Clean the sex toys before and after use. Do not directly pass a toy from the anus to the vagina without washing it carefully or replacing the condom that covers it.

In summary, a small plug is usually the simplest starting point. Beads, dildos, prostate massagers and strap-ons can then be added as you know your preferences better. Anal pleasure is mainly based on relaxation and progression, not on maximum size.